Last weekend, after several years of hard work, several hours of intensely awesome sex, and with the help of a bath tub, a hitachi and and extension cord, I did it.
I finally squirted!
For the past few years, I’ve had a feeling that if I could only get over myself, I could squirt. I often felt [...]

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The first scene of the weekend had been partially spontaneous. This one was completely spontaneous.
Anon has a small alcove in his room, where his bed fits perfectly, with just enough room on each side for lube, my hitachi, a book, all that good stuff.  And at the bottom corners of the alcove, as well as [...]

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And amazingly, it was not the weekend of Winter Fire!
Despite being at a kink event and floating in and out of  D/s head space, the boy and I were more boyfriend/girlfriend during WF, rather than Mistress/boy. This is not a bad thing, of course. Head spaces change. But the next weekend, in Philly, we played [...]

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We met at Dark Odyssey: Summer Camp, and amazing wonderful things happened. We met, and fell in love.
Now today I am collaring him. We have written a contract to sign, designed a small ceremony, and in front of our friends at Dark Odyssey: Winter Fire, I am collaring him as mine.
Anon will no longer be [...]

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As many of you know, when I wear jeans, I often flag. I’ve got my red hanky all nicely folded and ready to slide into my left back pocket.
Just in case. Because you never know when or where you might meet someone who knows what it means.
From what I understand, the hanky code used in [...]

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