I like to repost this how-to that Jocasta wrote up for me a few years ago – I don’t own a strap-on harness. This is what I use, and its great!

Loop the working end through the bight. We just made a lark’s head. It is one of the most common knots you’ll make. Don’t tighten [...]

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Don’t give awkward blow jobs on your birthday. They are awkward, and throw things off.
That’s advice you can take to the bank.
Winter Fire weekend was super exciting for me – it was my first hotel event AND it was my birthday weekend. But my birthday day was kind of awkward.
First, I had an issue with [...]

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I feel the need to share photos of my toys, of both the sex, and kink variety. I’ll put things under a cut. :)

This is my bedside toy cabinet. All the sex toys I use most are in there. There are a few that live in the lower drawer, because they’re broken and I [...]

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Jersey vs. Long Island
Avah vs. Wendy, in a dick sucking contest to stand the test of time.
Ah yes, the throw down post! The one everyone seems to want to read.
Now honesty, while fun, the Blow Job Throw Down, or, the Blowdown, if you will was more of an endurance thing than a sexy thing.
In one [...]

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Let me just start by saying that many parts of this post will be fuzzy, due to the nature of the scene. I was fairly out of it by the end, and even some memories from before the scene are a little fuzzy. Subspace is a beautiful thing.
And Avah: Please don’t be mad at me. [...]

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