This is part of a conversation I had with a girl at school:
Me: I’m bad at sharing. I don’t like it. I didn’t pass kindegarten!
J: But…you’re boyfriend has another girlfriend. If you don’t like to share, doesn’t that bother you?
Me: Yeah, well, its not like cake or something. Love is an infinite resource, it doesn’t [...]

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Pick up scenes are what I call those lovely little scenes at summer camp that just sort of happen. They tend to organically grow out of the situations, because it is such a free environment.
For example, while hanging out on the porch of my cabin, Horns (Anon’s other girlfriend) and I were talking about slapping, [...]

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In the past few months, I’ve had more than a few conversations about poly/mono/etc relationships, verging from ‘Well, you do poly so well and I don’t know how you do it (directed at me)’ to ‘OMGWTF Me? Are you kidding, I’m totally insane’ (five seconds after the previous comment)
Its something I’ve been thinking about more [...]

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