And amazingly, it was not the weekend of Winter Fire!
Despite being at a kink event and floating in and out of  D/s head space, the boy and I were more boyfriend/girlfriend during WF, rather than Mistress/boy. This is not a bad thing, of course. Head spaces change. But the next weekend, in Philly, we played [...]

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Anon has some massive motherfucking balls, let me tell you. Simply massive. Sometimes, it looks like his dick is resting on a duvet of balls.
When he met, he told me he liked CBT. I hadn’t really had much any experience with it, but I picked up on the basic premise pretty quickly. Hurting is junk [...]

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Wendyland has been quite busy lately.
There has been massage school midterm madness, which will thankfully be done this week.
There has been prepping for my class at TES:TNG this week (Fisting 101, on Wednesday! Ya’ll should come.  Ages 19-35!)
And then there has been The Boy. I’ve gone down to visit him in Philly twice, and this [...]

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In the past few months, I’ve had more than a few conversations about poly/mono/etc relationships, verging from ‘Well, you do poly so well and I don’t know how you do it (directed at me)’ to ‘OMGWTF Me? Are you kidding, I’m totally insane’ (five seconds after the previous comment)
Its something I’ve been thinking about more [...]

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